New York Don't Feel Like America — Here's the Proof
Land in New York expecting America and you'll get something else entirely. Not a bigger version of the country — a different one, running its own rules.
The numbers make the case better than any travel guide.
Roughly 800 languages are spoken across the city, which linguists believe makes it the most linguistically diverse place in human history. Close to 40% of New Yorkers were born in another country. That's not a neighbourhood or a district. That's the whole city.

Then there's the car. Most of America is built around owning one. In New York, most households don't have a car at all — in Manhattan it's the overwhelming majority. Driving there isn't freedom, it's a punishment with a monthly parking bill.
Population-wise, more people live in New York City than in the majority of US states. As an economy on its own, it would out-earn most countries on Earth.

So why does anyone stay? It's expensive to the point of absurdity, loud, filthy in places, and physically exhausting.
Here's my honest take: New York doesn't welcome you — it audits you. It's one of the few cities left that gives you nothing for showing up and everything for being good at something. That's a hard deal, and it's also why people who leave keep coming back.

The verdict: New York isn't America's biggest city. It's a country-sized experiment America happens to contain — and the rest of the US doesn't live anything like this.
You don't move there to be comfortable. You move there to find out what you're actually worth.